Politics with Parents: A Holiday Conversation Guide

Project lead: Hannah Reid

The goal of this document is to give young people the fact-based information they need to hold their own in political discussions with their families this holiday season. Now more than ever, it is essential we are doing everything we can to disrupt the spread of misinformation and hate in our communities and the holidays give you an opportunity to get started doing just that with the people you love the most.

This document provides basic talking points about political issues many of us care about the most, with as many linked sources as possible. We hope for this to be a living document and will update with new information when we can. This document only captures the tip of the iceberg and we would urge you to seek out additional resources beyond it.

Table of Contents

  1. Tips before you start

  2. Climate Justice

  3. Economics

  4. Healthcare and Bodily Autonomy

  5. Palestine

  6. Immigration

  7. Crime

Tips before you start talking:

  1. Meet people where they are. Listening to their perspective and understand what headspace they are coming into the conversation with

    1. Ask Questions - try and get at the root of where they are getting information and who they trust as an authority on this topic. Is their opinion coming from a place of ignorance or have they been fed disinformation?

    2. As you listen, don’t interrupt, but if/when they share something that is factually incorrect, but be prepared to correct them with a variety of sources, preferably some from sources they trust

  2. Don’t tell them what to think

    1. Share with them what helped you come to the conclusions you did. Maybe it was access to new information, maybe it was an evaluation of your morals, maybe it was a personal experience

    2. Ask questions that lead them to start seeing the holes in their conservative logic

  3. When possible, use personal narratives or try to get the person you’re speaking with to understand the topic on a more personal level.

  4. Use visuals when you can as well. It’s one thing to be told something, it’s another entirely to see it with your own eyes.

Climate Justice

Yes! Climate Change is real and is happening right now

Climate change is directly linked to carbon dioxide and methane emissions and the fossil fuel industry has known this for decades and intentionally chose to not act to retain profit.

The existence of climate change is the scientific consensus and is further evidenced by the increase in extreme weather events we are seeing now. The earth is getting warmer each year and we are on track to see over 3C of warming, which would lead to an increase of catastrophic weather events.

Climate Change is about more than just saving the planet. It has impacts on all aspects of our lives

Fossil Fuels are not only accelerating global warming and global climate change, but they have serious impacts on public health

Climate change is also economically costly. The cost of not acting on climate change will be far greater economically speaking than acting now. This is why we need to transition our fossil fuel based economy to a green economy.

Climate change will also have serious impacts on agriculture and the foods we eat. Whether it be extreme heatwaves and droughts, storms and flood, shorter growing seasons, or the spread of disease, climate change will greatly impact our food and agriculture systems. Some crops are more susceptible to changes than others and so we are already seeing the impact.

There are actions we can take to address climate change now

While much of the world is currently powered by fossil fuels, we do have alternatives. Knowing how harmful fossil fuels are to both the climate and public health, it’s essential that our government help facilitate a clean energy transition

Will a switch to renewables mean a new unemployment crisis?

Additional Resources

Economics

Trump and the economy

Trump has proposed huge tariffs on goods as a way to bring down inflation. However, that is not how tariffs work

Housing

Housing has become unaffordable for many Americans. Rent is on the rise and home ownership feels completely outside the realm of possibilities for many, especially young people.

Additional Resources

Healthcare and Bodily Autonomy

Affordable Care Act

Abortion

Additional Tips before you start talking

Abortion Fast Facts

It is also imperative that we emphasize that the need for abortion is driven by unequal access to healthcare, to health insurance, to adequate pay, and to safe living conditions, all of which are stratified by race, class, and immigration status. Abortion is not felt equally, and access to proper services are not felt equally, so some stigmatizing rhetoric may come up that needs to be shut down.

Finally, in discussing these issues, move away from ‘pro-choice’ and ‘pro-life’ rhetoric: because abortion is not a choice, it is a decision. A choice implies that the opposite option is an equally feasible one, and many times it is not: economically, circumstantially, and for the pregnant person’s body. ‘Pro-choice’ fails to capture the complexities of what abortion is: a decision made based on your class, race, gender and sexual identity, age, citizenship status, relationship to the medical field, ability status… the list goes on. Rather, a decision is what pregnant people are forced to make based on these circumstances.

Additional Resources

LGBTQIA2+

Them put out an article for how to prepare for your first visit home post transition

In terms of trans and gender affirming healthcare, GLAAD, the Center for American Progress, and the Human Rights Campaign have all put out factsheets detailing essential facts about LGBTQIA healthcare.

Palestine

Additional Tips before you start talking

The Basics

Where we are now

Pro-Israel PACs are influencing our domestic politics more than any other lobbying group. .

The world has recognized the harm Israel is doing and beginning to take steps to hold the country accountable

The US is doing the opposite, discrediting the ICC despite applauding them for taking the same action against Putin just last year.

This past year we have seen an increase of repression of free speech, not just in our media but in our legislature.

Additional resources

Immigration

Immigrants are in many ways the backbone of this country. They often work essential jobs, like food production and construction, that keep this country running.

Immigrants of all legal status pay taxes - a 2022 study showed that undocumented immigrants paid almost 100 billion in taxes

Despite claims in the media, immigrants commit crimes at much lower rates than US born offenders. Both the United States government and nonprofit organizations have reported on this

Many immigrants are coming to the US to escape violence that the US helped cause. This is particularly true in Central and South America where the US has destabilized nearly every government within the last 100 years.

Additional resources



Crime

Older generations often tout crime as an issue plaguing America, and more specifically, major cities. Not everything seen in the news is true, and reports of crime are oftentimes used to villainize Black and Brown city dwellers. (source)

Crime is nearly proportional to population density, indicating that cities are no more dangerous than rural areas.